On Manifestation: Who You Become Is the Magic

Jun 30

Welcome back, beautiful soul! ✨

Today, I want to riff on manifestation. And I want to do it…differently. More…expansively…from a both/and approach and a you-me-us approach.

HERE’S WHAT I MEAN BY A BOTH/AND APPROACH:

True manifestation is both about achieving the soul-aligned goals we long to achieve and it’s about allowing ourselves to evolve into the person we need to become in order to achieve and sustain the achievement of those soul-aligned goals.

Part of the magic of manifestation is the process we go through as we are manifesting…which is as much about undoing and outgrowing as it is about magnetizing and attracting.

In order to become the person you need to become in order to attract the thing you desire, you have to become undone in some way…and/or outgrow in some way. And as you become this person—a truer, more fully expressed you—you really get that “the end goal” is great but devoting yourself to the process of growth and evolution is where soul-deep fulfillment lives.

It’s not just about the goal—it’s also about the growth.

When you set a new goal, it feels expansive and exciting. Soon after, it feels contractive. Discomfort and challenge settle in as old patterns come up to be worked through.

First the expansion,
then the contraction.

For example:

First: My client set an intention to attract soul-aligned friendships.
Soon After: An over-responsibility pattern surfaced so that she could heal that pattern and receive and sustain receiving the medicine of true reciprocity in friendship.
Now: She has sustained fulfilling and soul-nourishing friendships.

Affirm it with me:
As I call something new in, I let something old go.

HERE’S WHAT I MEAN BY A YOU-ME-US APPROACH:

It’s not just about you—it’s about all of us.

When you outgrow old parts of self…or people…or roles…or ways-of-being…that deeply serves all of us. As you radiate your unique light more fully expressed, that embodiment serves as a beacon of inspiration for others to model after. You manifesting your dreams in the fullness of who you are…is of deep service to all of us. It encourages us. It shows us what’s possible. So, thank you.

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With care,
Heather

Heather Waxman

Heather Waxman is a therapist, spiritual life coach, breathwork facilitator, and author of the Your True Nature Oracle deck. She delivers a truly holistic therapeutic experience by sharing spiritual, somatic, and relational practices to help clients achieve their personal goals and come home to their true nature.